Our Favorite Books on Love & Connection

Reading a book about relationships can be a powerful act of connection in itself. The right book can give you a shared language and a new framework for understanding each other. Here is a short, curated list of the books we believe offer the most practical and transformative wisdom for couples.

The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work

by Dr. John M. Gottman & Nan Silver

If you only read one book on this list, make it this one. Based on decades of research, this book is packed with actionable advice, quizzes, and exercises that are immediately applicable to your daily life.

The 5 Love Languages

by Gary Chapman

A true classic for a reason. This book provides a simple but profound framework for understanding how you and your partner give and receive love. It's often a game-changing "aha!" moment for couples.

Attached

by Amir Levine & Rachel S.F. Heller

This book explores the science of adult attachment theory. Understanding whether you have a Secure, Anxious, or Avoidant attachment style can illuminate recurring patterns in your relationship.

Eight Dates

Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

by Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman

For couples who want a more hands-on, activity-based approach, this book is perfect. It provides a framework for eight specific, positive dates, each focused on a crucial topic like Trust, Conflict, and Dreams.

Start Your Reading Journey

You don't need to read all of these at once. Pick the one that resonates most with you, and approach it with curiosity. The goal isn't to become an expert, but to find one or two new ideas that can help you and your partner grow together.

And if you're looking for a way to put these ideas into practice immediately, our 14-Day Emotional Reconnection Challenge is the perfect companion to your reading journey.